Thanks Alex!!!
And not sure what to mention about the swash, so I'll just list off parts you need here:
-4 micro servos. Standard size would be fine too, I just happen to have a lot of spare micros. It will be rather small and light, so you don't need anything fancy.
-lots of long servo horns. Each servo you buy will come with a lot of these... but you need the long ones. I think the long ones that I am using came from hs45HB's
-a r/c transmitter (tx) capable of eccpm, these are made for cp helicopters, and control 3 servos for the swash at 120 degrees. And as Adrenalynn pointed out already... to be ground legal it should be 2.4ghz. What I am using is a spektrum dx7, which I use for my steambots & helicopters
-rx that matches your tx. With 2.4ghz, only one tx can be bind to your rx
- one receiver pack - when you buy a radio system, it usually comes with one of these. It should be 4 aa cells to power servos... or equivalent rechargeable.
-servo tape, just tape on the servo to the pack
-helicopter ball links... I am using align trex 450 helicopter links, but just about any heli links will be fine. You can adjust the links to the correct length... trail and error until you get nice movement in the servo horns/legs.
-body... you can use whatever

the head I am using one of those 50 cent capsule toy vending machine things... the wings are align trex heli tail blades. The body is from a canopy from some rc plane that I had forgotten where it came from
-led eyes are from micro heli as well... they have servo plugs and can be switched on and off via any channel- just set the end points on your tx to 100 or above.
That's about does it I think, pretty straight forward & simple. But feel free to ask questions if you guys are going to build one

The hardest part is programing the tx, if you are a rc heli pilot it will all make sense to you - it literally acts like the swash of a cp heli. If you don't fly, it may be confusing, and the initial cost for the radio can be rather high

The actual robot itself, minus the raido tx/rx, is cheap though, most expensive components are the micro servos, at 10-15 bucks a pop
-Crabfu